Am I failing?

[awest1217]

It all comes out in the end, and usually where and when you least expect it.

I am glad both of your kids were there with you. With your D, just keep being there for her. Keep asking and keep trying. Little things like hanging out by the pool will always help. Kids say they don't like their parents bothering them, but they know it is because you care and that is all that matters.