At times I look at my situation and think, hey Im doing really well. H is making forward movement and pursuing. H is talking about future plans and being really nice. H is respecting boundaries.
Then there are moments when I realise that he is still with OW and this makes me sad and hurt.
I have great people around me who I can talk to. This helps so much. One of the girls here at work was once the OW. She told me that OW calling obsessively last night is a great sign. It means that she is getting worried about H and my relationship. And will no doubt pressure him, which in turn will ultimately ruin the relationship. She has really great insight about what the OW is like and she is brutally honest. I feel sorry for her sometimes. I really hope my H is strong enough to realise what OW is like.
W - 31 H - 33 Married - 7 years Together - 10 yrs Kids - S 3yrs old Separated - 27/03/11 OW - 10/04/11
