Yeah 9 .... that thought has crossed my mind a number of times as well.
Bottom line ... just because she's coming back around doesn't mean she's any less confused than when she asked for a separation, or moved out. It may mean she's more confused.
She goes thru periods where she talks about where we would live, etc. And, I try not to get wrapped up in them.
It's like an MMA fight ...... and I'm trying not to get complacent and get taken to the mat.
Good idea Ironman! I've become complacent a couple of times and been taken to the mat and put in a figure four leg lock!! LOL... not a pleasant experience!
You're doing great! Sounds like you are really in the position of needing to decide if YOU want the M ...
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce