How long will you stand? Do you see where it may have started before the bomb?
I consider my time through MLC (2 1/2 yrs) to be rather quick. The dilemma is how long do you stand understanding there are no garauntees just possibilites.
The more GAL I do the more people I meet. This increases chances of meeting someone more compatible for me in this stage of life.
This is not a goal as I am comfortable alone and being there for my kids. I do have a decent amount of friends. what I do miss is the companionship/closeness that I had in my relationship. Thats something i would want but don"t need.
I don"t have atime frame set as its been about 2 yrs already but I don"t think my wife has the tools to get through which concerns me. Something (time, event, etc will have to push her into herself for her to do the work. I was pushed into the depths of total despair and pain. Eventually the bottom came.
Having been through it i feel i have more insight into MLC which can be a blessing and a curse.
Have you forgiven her to this point?
Just curious. Our sitch"s are almost identical with the kids etc.
