SHE came up with a one month "time for ourselves" proposal, which was healthy. [u]You agreed.
Correct. But she agreed to do it ALONE.
Then Denver found another man sitting on his wife's toilet bowl.
Sorry, but that's a pretty important part to leave out, 25. There's no amnesia on this thread -- Denver has owned up to his own role in this, according to the consensus here, to a fault.
"Paranoia" is an unreasonable fear. I don't see anything unreasonable about Denver expecting his wife to live up to her commitment to go thru this period without the influence of a third party.
Just my opinion, but it's just as valid as anyone else's.