I said to her, "I'm trying to trust you..." Then I corrected myself, "I do trust you"... then said, "I hope that you are being honest with me" (this was all said last Sunday when we were talking about the Disney World trip and when she offered to forward me the email confirming her show for that night).
The reality is that I don't completely trust her right now. Could I again? Yes. I will trust her 100% once she has recommitted to our M and to me. The problem is that she is NOT committed right now... She is still trying to figure things out for herself.
I'm not trying to bust on you D.....
But the above ( in bold ) really bothers me...
You are asking for complete trust and tranparency , yet you are not being honest with her with you....
When do you become the change you want to see here ?
