LITB, Alamo, Thanks for your suggestions. Yup, when it comes to kids i agree i need to deal with it differently.

Talked to wife. She said she needed some time to figure out daughter's schedule. Then i guess we can fix up a better time.

You know, when families get disintegrated like this, there is so much complication...

Thanks for your feedback guys!

BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...