MLC world, trying again hopefully goes through. No OW in my MLC. My kids really didn't notice or they didn't say anything. I still did things for them. I was just totally out of it and glad I pulled that off as it was not there issue. You know when people say there W or H is an alien to them. That was me. It seemed like someone else was pulling the strings and I was just along for the ride. Surviving each day was a struggle due to the depressions/anger/fog. My MLC was very deep and lasted 2 1/2 years. My wife is approx 2 yrs into it. I don"t know if there is OM. To be honest it really doesn"t matter. If she doees not come through there will be no realtionship other than coparenting anyway.
I still love my W. I always will but that does not mean we will be together. MLC is a tough animal. You cannot help someone going through it. It is there journey alone. I will say a key to getting through MLC is forgiving the people around you that you are currently blaming for your troubles. This is easy to say and difficult to do.
Sounds like you are doing the right thing moving your life along World. I am seperated as well and going on 7 months. She still has not loooked withing and until that even happens there is no hope for a turn around.
