Originally Posted By: jbnati
Good deal, LITB. It sounds like the convo went as well or better than expected. Sounds like you held your ground well.


It did go better than expected. Thanks again for the prayers JB.

Now we have to let the kids know that they are not going to NM. I will probably wait until the weekend to do it. The W wants to be included in the discussion, which I am not opposed to.

I'm thinking of telling them something to this effect:

"As of right now you guys will not be going to NM with mommy in a few weeks. Mommy and daddy have to work out a few things before you guys head down there. In the meantime, you guys will continue living with me. We will make plans for you guys to spend time with mommy in NM when we everything is worked out."

Simple and to the point without making anyone look like the bad guy. Please feel free to help me out.

On another note, yesterday I was feeling terrible about having her served at work. Today I just want to get her served so she can see what she is up against.

If I get an opportunity, I will share what is on the docs. It is not pretty at all. She may retract her statement about a judge not giving me favor in custody.


Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa