Oh good grief. Your wife needs to grow the H up, and focus on what's truly important. My lord, you could've both been KILLED yesterday!
I'm glad you're okay, CL. Focus on taking care of the care and insurance and medical matters, and on "Doing The Right Thing" in each. Let your wife to her own moods, and just validate without overdoing/rescuing, in my opinion.
Starsky (who's not liking your wife too much right now )
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