Cadet ... why do you two continue to reside in the same house? Finances? Stubborness?
Finances - Yes. This is not my crisis or my divorce. It is hers. I am in the MBR, she chose to move in the guest room. I can not control her nor will I try.
Are you suggesting that I should run away from my own house? Not going to happen.
If a judge orders me to leave then, I will have no choice. But until that time I guess that is my boundary. To remain in the house and continue to live my life.
Depression is about control. My wife would like me to move out of the house and GIVE it to her. There has to be some dose of reality here. Just like you are not going to GIVE your wife your assets and walk away.
