Cadet,You've been such prolific poster that it is hard to get a read on your current sitch. What is the status of you and your wife at present? Still living together, but separate? Anyone file for D? Is she still deep in menopause? Anyway, just like to understand your circumstances. Again, thanks for your care and advice. MW
Yes you would need to be Houdini to figure out my sich. FTR I do post else where and up until about 6 months ago my wife was stalking me on all 5 of the different boards that I have been on. (although one board did shut down).
My belief is that she is still in depression/withdrawal stage and she did file for divorce last December. Yes she is still in major crisis, overt depression, menopause. We only speak through lawyers although we continue to live in the same house, separate bed rooms.
She is what is called a low energy MLC'er. If you read any of my earlier sich you will see that there has not been an OM/OW although very early in replay she may have had an EA with another MLC woman. That didn't last long.
Don't ask me why I am writing all this out right now but let me just say that I am good for the moment. My adult children are great and thriving in their own enviornments. I continue to work on me. And I will be doing that forever. I have learned so much in the last two years.
I know that no matter what happens in my life I will be OK. I am at peace with my wife and wish her well no matter what she chooses to do. I hope that she can find the happiness that she is searching for. I know that I can not control her or FIX her. She will need to do that on her own.
Hope that explains where I am at. There are some other people here that will be interested too.
