My boundary is one that I feel very prepared to enforce. I just can't imagine myself not following through with what I've put in place if she crosses it. That is just how I feel.
And what if she crosses it?
What then?
Something to think about before the fact if I may borrow Starsky's dilemma scanario.
Can you set a boundary and have no emotion when it is croseed?
Will you have greater anger when it is crossed?
There is one thing I can tell you...
Never will you have more regret than walking away from a life changing decision such as this ....
With ANGER.
So
Where is the peace?
In you making a decision. And nothing deterring you from it.
Stay or go?
Is she worth it?
Why are you here?
Cause you don't want to lose?
Cause you need vindication for your sins?
Or
Becuase you love your wife and you believe in marriage and that sets you on a path that has nothing to do with any other person's decisons but yours.
Stand?
Becuase of you. NOT because of what your W chooses.
Enforce your boundary.
But walk away knowing why you did.
And it ain't because someone chose to cross it.
Because it is for YOU.
Thin is the line between the two.
In the end you will know because of your anger.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
