Quote: There simply isn't enough time to do everything the way you used to do it. Time to decide what has to be done, what doesn't have to be done, what can slide or doesn't have to be done quite so often or so thoroughly, what is really important and what do you really want to be spending your time on. Sorry, there is no way around it.
I believe this is really the root of our problem.
Quote: Talk about your feelings with your W. Tell her what you've said here. You can even start out with saying you're going to talk about some feelings that may sound like you're blaming her, but that you take responsibility for your own feelings. You just want to share with her what is going on with you, see if she has some things to share with you, and see if the two of you together can come up with some solutions .
We have our first MC session on Thursday. I'm hoping that this will open the door for us to figure this whole mess out. I'll give an update after Thurs.
