There's a myriad of things you can do to GAL. Not all of them cost money. Is there any place you can volunteer? That's a good way to make some new friends. Any old hobbies you've put off?
If you watch your W closely, she may seem like she has her mind made up, but she may also be saying comments out loud that appear to be directed to you to convince herself of her decision. Your W's inconsistency, though, seems to be indicative of some confusion.
