Thanks for the list Cadet. I've been through these threads many times, but usually have to search someone elses to find it, so this will be handy indeed.
Read and have highlighted in detail Divorce Remedy shortly after the separation. It is a daily guide for me, as are many of the posts here; especially the vintage stuff by Heart Broken.
New to posting, but I'm a long term lurker of the site. Finally decided to "jump in the pool" again. First posted in Feb-11, but was too messed up and caught up in the roller coaster to really understand the magnitude of my sitch. Probably still don't understand, but why else would one choose to stand if a negative outcome were certain? We love these MLC'ers, and know it's not sane. But what can you say? +20 years of marraige, great kids, good times, sweet life, then crazy spouse. Very hard to hit the flush button on our M.
I do have a great support system of friends and family (W's included), and am rapidly piecing together a life. Hate the though of D, but know I will survive and thrive in the end. My focus is on myself and daughters. Not interested in any new R's, that's for sure! Would interfere with some very good fishing this summer and skiiing this winter! Will miss the W, but not the trout or the slopes. These simply won't wait!
You guys are all saints as far as I'm concerned. As I've said, I'm not religeous, but "there are no aethists in fox holes"!
