Quote: Stay away from the idea of it being about your needs not being met. It is about both of you. You are on the same team. Don't draw a line between you. Consider dropping the LD/HD labels. The labels have a way of setting things up for "taking sides."
This certainly makes a lot of sense. However, really stuggle with this. I don't want this to be a tug-of-war but I often find myself slipping into the mind set of "what about my needs/wants" I'm really hoping a MC can help us both work through this.
