MLC World, My MLC was an internal, extreme emotionally draining journey which lead me to a content peaceful place at the end. It lasted 2 1/2 years beginning to end. No OW involved. My kids did not know i was going through it. I did almost move out but chose to stay. What a great decision that was even though I couldn'lt tell you if I made it or it just happenend that way.I was lost in my own mind for a long time. You know how thay say your wife or husband was taken over by an alien. That is exactly how I felt. Like someone else was pulling the strings. I wouldn"t wish MLC on my worst enemy. All I can say is but for the grace of god I made it through. I will say as well that I wanted to make it through and put a lot of effort in that direction as well even though at times in the journey it seemed like it wouldn"t matter.
Mine lasted 2 1/2 years and my wife is approx 2 years into it. She has mentioned divorce a few times but has not filed. At this point I don"t think it matters whether she does or not. Nobody can help a person through MLC. That journey is that persons alone and noone else can make a dent in it. Thats why detaching and GAL are so important.
I hope my wife makes it through but I have tucked that away in a small compartment. I will love my wife forever but that does not mean I will end up with her. That rests in someone else's hands. At this point I don't know if there is OM. I am moving on with my life and at this point it really doesn't matter.
