Anyways I'll give a summary of what's going on. me and my wife are separated and we haven't been talking much. I suspect that there might be an affair but she says there isn't and her brother says he doesn't think so. 4 days into the separation (yesterday) she came over and said she wants a divorce. Which of course is devastating to me. She said that in time she hopes we can be friends. When she leaves she gives me a hug and a kiss. She was texting me last night and we were being nice and cordial with each other but it was a brief conversation. Today she sends me a text saying she is probably going to file for a divorce next month after her and her brother move. I said I didn't know she was trying to move that quickly on it. She sent me a text at her next break saying
I want to be alone. I don't want to be with anyone. I don't want to be married. I'm trying to do this as civil as possible.
I replied
I understand that and we haven't been uncivil yet thankfully I respect you wanting a divorce i realize we have both done somethings wrong I just don't want us to have regrets later on down the road
I haven't heard back from her since.
She still has most of her stuff here. I have her cat because her brother is allergic but she's taking care of it. So we still see each other about every 2-3 days. I'm not sure if the Last Resort Technique is what I should be using or what? It seems like it's almost too late to save our marriage at this point in time. What can I do? thank you
