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Just giving a different perspective.


25 is more than capable of defending herself. : )

It is a different perspective.

I use my experience to form my advice.

For me, I was a waste of life, husband and father for about 2 years.

I also use my friends posts to help formulate my advice.

Each LBS contributed to the failing marriage.

Maybe you didn't.

I'm not going to try to convince you that you did.


Horses and water...and just because I think it's water, doesn't mean it is.

Personal attacks are not advised. I am not pointing anyone out, I am just typing that outloud.

There is one thing that I feel must be brought up.

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As MWD says, DB'ing is about finding yourself. Finding what you deserve. Finding your happiness. And finding a person that would not cheat.


That is a misquote. Be careful with those.

What she has written, in regard to the LBS:

Divorce Remedy (Beating the Odds pg - 43 hardcover)

First, you, not your spouse, are going to have to do the lion's share of the work here...you are going to have to prove that life together can be different. You may not like the fact that this feels so one-sided, but for now, I say, "That's too bad." That's just how it is. Get used to this idea, swallow your pride, and push up your sleeves.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet