Hi Abby, I am new to this forum as of today. Read some of your post. Oh my, sounds so familar it hurts. I have been married 21 years and am dealing with repeated lies of a 3 plus year being over. I've been told this so many times. I know he is lying. It is driving me crazy! The other reason I responded to your post is I also live in So Cal. I am very alone in that it has been 2 years since I found out and I haven't told anyone. I am going crazy! I hope to get to know you better.
