Hey MLC World welcome back to the best worst place in the world to be.
Don't know if you have read my normal welcoming threads with all the links?
If you want it I will be more than happy to put it on your thread.
For the moment keep reading and asking questions. Their is a wealth of knowledge here.
Besides GAL activities what are you doing when you look in the mirror? What changes are you making to YOU? This is a hard question and not one I "EXPECT" an answer from right now. But it is something that you do have to think about and work on.
But any ways keep your expectations low. And start enjoying the gift that you wife has given you.