W apparently found a place but can't move in until Sept. Asked me if I will keep watching her cat until then.
My first inclination is to say no. I have been watching this cat a lot the past 3 years and W has never said 'thank you' or anything to acknowledge that I have been doing it. Watching the cat puts a limitation on my freedom - I need to be responsible for making sure she gets fed and arranging to have her looked after if i go out of town for more than a few days - and means I have to take care of all the unpleasant aspects of having a cat (litter, random acts of catness) While I like the cat, she is clearly my W's cat. I feel like W is just further taking advantage of me in doing this, and I really feel no desire to continue to allow this.
M: 32 W: 29 T: 9 Years M: 4 Years I hit rock bottom: 2/11 PA admitted: 4/11 WAW: 5/11 D filed: 6/11 now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.
