Nopkins:

It is true, sex will make a man MUCH more attentive and MUCH happier to the LD spouse. I know I will do anything for a HD woman. I know from my sit that my LD wife does not meet ANY needs of mine, so I find myself asking myself all the time, why do ANYTHING for her. I tell you, I have to FORCE myself to even care about her needs anymore. I would be SO MUCH happier if she just cared to meet my needs.

As for duty sex, it is just slightly better then no sex, but not by much. If a man wanted duty sex, he could get a hooker and probably have MORE fun then duty sex with his wife. Men KNOW when the wife is faking desire, and sex is ALWAYS far better with a women that actually HAS desire. Duty sex leads to sexual aversion, which is REALLY serious.