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Is there any way that your L could arrange to have your W go somewhere to sign the papers? As I told someone in a different post, for my 1st D, my L arranged it so that exW went into his office to sign so that she didn't have to be served.

I am not sure LP. I just sent my L an email letting her know about the possible challenges of getting my W served. I suppose things might clear up a bit after my convo with my W tonight and a response from my L.

I am trying to prepare myself for what is going to take place with our convo. Starsky gave me some great advice. I hope to start the convo out with normal talk and ease my way into the eye of the storm.

I mentioned that I no longer had fear of a lot of things, however I fear for my W's well being. It su@ks. The part of not rescuing is apparently a difficult one for me when it comes to detachment. I want to save her, however I know that I can't.

I have to keep reminding myself that this is for the best interest of my kids.