Hi, I've just got through reading all the above posts and found it really fascinating. In my R H is the Hd and I am the Ld bordering on ND.
I have to say that from reading the guys point of view of being hd and w being ld, I get it now. I now understand my H anger at me.
I am really going to work on not only being more responsive but to actally initiate. It's hard tho sometimes as I feel its always for him, what he needs, even tho I hear the words, I like you touching me or I like touching you, I don't hear them as anything to do with me. I remember when the kids were little, there was resentment, it was like it ws one more thing I had to do for soemone else before I could go to sleep.Now I have arthritis(im only 40) and so for the past 10yrs pain has been my enemy.Sometimes I'd just lkike a night off LOL. Yes H wants it every nite. See theres that mind set again H wants it. I am trying to change my mindset, to H wants to make love to ME everynite. It is getting easier, I have lost weight, I'm starting to look better at 40 than i did at 25, my dd is 14 and so i have a makeup/wardrobe assistant, so things are looking up that end and I am feeling much more attractive, so that is helping. If I can just stop him getting angry over stupid little things and kids noise then i'm sure I will feel more loving towards him.
