Fool me once, Shame on ME

[LearningPatience]

9,
I think that's the point mach and I were trying to make. You go dark/NC for *you*, to remove yourself from the sitch, to make healing easier without adding more drama to it. But, your comments seem to indicate you were also doing it to get a reaction or results from W. That's a side-effect. Even if it does happen, you can't concern yourself with it AT ALL.

I think it will be easier if you can get to know this on not just an intellectual basis, but on an emotional one also.