Originally Posted By: ninelives
Okay folks:
That doesnt mean NC or going dark, I have done that with results I cant read. I have to drop the rope and not really care what she is doing.

So the question then becomes, did you go dark to elicit a change in your W, or did you go dark for your own sake, for your own healing?


Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011