Okay folks: That doesnt mean NC or going dark, I have done that with results I cant read. I have to drop the rope and not really care what she is doing.
So the question then becomes, did you go dark to elicit a change in your W, or did you go dark for your own sake, for your own healing?
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011