I appreciate your insight, but think about this.

Imagine I punch you in the face, everyday for 10 years. One day you decide you have had enough punches. We discuss it and agree that you have indeed had enough, and you have exhibited the patience of Job while you were slapped around daily. Now imagine that I off and punch your lights out after we have discussed, agreed and made decisions to prevent the very thing that I just did.

Be sure and remind me in a loving way that I shouldn't punch your lights out again...

The monkey is dead, the string is broke, and turning the crank makes no music. I refuse to return to status quo of the previous decade's relationship. If that means ruffled feathers, thrown food, tears of sadness or of joy, then so be it. If it means divorce, pain, sorrow, and new beginnings, so be it. Regardless of the outcome, change has come to frog town.

:-)

-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.