Leaving again

[GAL Man]

Dont want to hijack your thread take but I got a lot from your post. Will reply again in a bit

I just dont know what to do at times. I know deep in her she feels she made a mistake, but I also know that she is afraid and worried what others will think right now as she just moved out a month ago.

I also believe what DB coach has said. She told me last week that W has not been out there long enough to feel her true remorse and doesnt know how to piece it back together yet.

Wish I could have a db coach, but not possible from UK. Would love to hear more of what she said, or says in the future.

Patience is truly the key here. After having a good night with w and seeing some signs of improvement I feel like she should call this morning and put it all back together today. That is the part that is hard for me, PATIENCE.

Agree, patience, hard but is what is needed

She also told me not to be afraid of pushing her away by GALing and going dark. She told me that when w if ready to come back nothing will stand in her way. No om, no woman that may be in my life, she will not care what others think. No 100 men could stand in her way. And when she is ready she will scream it from the rooftops that she made a mistake and ask for another chance.

Would so much like this to be the case in my sit, but W is so stubborn, I can not see it happening, but you never know

I truly believe her and also you guys on here, this has been an amazing site for me, the book and the DB coach by phone.

Amen to that