XYZ-love it, man. Wow, you seem to have a similar sense of humor as I do and an almost identical frame of mind as I have right now. Really just started feeling the shift last week when I REALLY started goin' dark and the 180's for me..not her. It just feels so empowering and so right w/o being mean, etc. Keep on moving bro. It's amazing how much support and real life stories to relate to, here. Cheers!