Oh, how many of us can relate, LP. The bills thing is hilarious, right? My W has split the cell and others right down the middle and has even sent me the patient responsiblity portion of my IC sessions that were conducted before she filed--very petty.
I would really re-read going dark threads. It's not until you shift your mindset from doing them or 180's to get W's attention to doing them truly for you, LP. It's a powerful mindset shift and you will know when it shifts, believe me..and it feels da@# good!
