XYZ is here, but I won't be staying...

[XYZ]

Jack - So I mentioned that I dated a bit after I moved out. I've stopped that and taken down my profiles. Why? I was never ready to date and didn't even want to, but I HAD to prove to myself that I wound't die alone. Know what I found out? I'm one hell of a catch. There are TONS and TONS of women that will date me. I had no trouble at all and that includes the 80% that wouldn't touch a "separated" guy. If/when I'm divorced (and ready), I will have my choice of women. Once I realized that, my fear (a la Harrier's thread - and H, I'm sure this applies to you as well) evaporated.

I've decided that I don't want another woman. I want W. I may not get her, but I'm not ready to quit. Not even close.