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I will give her back the key to house we both own if she wants it


You both own it still? You still making payments on it?
I wouldn't although that is a fight coming.

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Still didn’t help so I cancelled the change of address.


Why? Has placating her changed her mind up until this point?
Why back down on this?

Stand up for yourself a little, not saying become an ass, but I also do not advocate kowtowing to the spouse to win them back.
A watered down version of: You're not going to divorce her into loving you.



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