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I know what you mean man. I cannot move to my wife's town because of my job. But even if i could, i would not. My wife has 40+ members of her family there. It is like a circus.

That made me laugh. I hear you on that. I like to live close to my family, but still far enough.

I wish I had some great advice for you I could share, but I really have no idea.

This is a tough spot for you, hope it goes as well as possible.

I still believe a conversation with your W before she receives the paperwork could prove positive. I would suggest keeping it verbal rather than email, etc.

Thanks Country. I agree with you on a verbal convo instead of an email. She is so unsuspecting to what is about to happen, I am devastated for her.

I just talked to my L, she reiterated that she feels that everything needs to be included and, "keep in mind that we did not say anything that is not true or that is exaggerated in the papers". I know she is right, but it doesn't make me feel any better.