I think our WAS need to see their journey through, if not to the end and beyond at least to the precipice. Either way we can only do our best for us.
JS, you are right here. I guess you'll have to let them take that journey. Or they will always feel that there must have been something there that they missed. My wife always felt that she could have done better. I think for me it is the co-dependent behavior with her that has gotten me so messed up.
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