See in my case my wife badly wanted to be close to her family.
My W moved to NM for the same reason. As of right now, she does not want to live up here. She told me point blank that I was going to make it ugly and keep her here. Believe me, I tried to work things out as peacefully as possible. I was even going to try to move to NM. It just isn't that easy. TBH, I have no desire to live in NM. I suppose that is besides the point right now.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa