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I just received a TM from my W asking again if we can talk tonight about the kids going to NM on July 16th. I have been able to buy myself an extra week to get all of the legal paperwork worked out, however today she will find out. I replied letting her know we can talk.

I hate doing this to the woman I care and love for more than she will ever know. I feel horrible.

My kids are still under the impression that they are moving to NM. I'll have to explain to them that they are not and why. It is a delicate situation, especially for D8. She has asked me twice why mommy moved? I have been able to deflect the question, however I will have to prepare myself to answer her in the best way possible.

When I opened the attachments from my L last night, my heart dropped. There is absolutely no mercy in the way they are written. TBH, I hurt for my W having to do this.

My head is swimming. Ultimately I would like to R my M, however this might create an insurmountable obstacle.

I'm curious if any of you vets have been down a similar path and have been able to R?