I never get angry with my wife. We have actually had almost no aurguments in 17 years. We never yell at each other. I have NEVER called my wife names or called her fridgid bitch. I have probably been TOO nice. My wife even made the comments that I do not stand up to her, that I avoid conflict. For 2004 and forward, I will express myself, CALMLY. I vent on here when I want to be angry.
I have been reading the book "What women want men to know" and it talks about how women want security in their marriage above all else. I am begining to think that telling my wife earlier that I am not happy with our sex life has made her feel unsure about our marriage, which leads to insecurity, which makes things worse. How can we tell our wives how bad the problem is without screwing up the security problem?
