A rough weekend or mostly Sunday. OW had S make a gift for XH for father's day which means they were alone together (I had bought him something from S). Then XH and S were supposed to go on an outing with just his dad for father's day. Then his mom wanted in and to make a long story short, OW went too.

It bugs me a ton, not because they are together so much although that does bother me, but more because XH doesn't respect me as S's mother to tell me as we both agreed when I first filed. Not because we want to know about each other, but because S is 3 and we need to understand what he is talking about. S was tellin me how XH lives with OW and I don't know how he knows that. S says gma and gpa told him, but I don't know. Then to tell me it would just be family, saying the specific members and to just not say OW on purpose is disrespectful and if anything I thought he respected me as S's mom.


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52
2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89