I haven't posted on my thread for awhile. Been extremely busy with our business and by the end of the day I just don't have the energy.
Nope. we never did get to go fishing, but thats OK, the temps were in the 90's which brought thru alot of storms, We did take a nice drive in the country Sunday just to get away from the campgrounds for a bit, and have some WE time.
There is always one day of the week that hubby drinks too much, usually Friday night, I guess i'm just getting immune to it, and turn to my alanon teachings to provide myself some sanity. I dont argue anymore when hes drunk. Hes not always mean but he can pretty stupid.
I think that you and I are alot alike when it comes to shutting down when were not being treated right. Yep...cook your own meal, fold your own clothes, etc. Its hard not to fit that profile of feeling like a maid at times, but also I've noticed a big change from hubby since we seperated in 2007..he does alot more to help me ( even without being asked ) Cooks more, fixes things sooner, etc. I think my Love Language is service. hehe
And I do like my alone and quiet time...
I'm glad you found this forum and are using it to build a healthier marriage.
I have one question tho. You talked about your Hubby becoming an angrier man, treating you with disrepect, hurting you with words...leaving.........When did all that start?? or was the anger and fighting a pattern in your marriage?
I know we lost repect for each other, treating others better than our partners, and we were both guilty of it.
Just wondering?
Sunny
Sunny and Talk - Are you guys related to my W? Or maybe I am related to your H's! LOL...
Denver
Denver, the odds are good that someone is related on this board! I think my dad's family did settle in Col in the 1800's before moving on to a remote island in BC. (???) Must have been fugitives...
