Sandi is awesome. I hope she keeps posting to you as well. In fact, I'm pretty sure she will.
You said you were going to read some anger management books and see a counselor. Have you accomplished this? I really think it's good if you share this. There are several ppl that COULD benefit from it....If you are not comfortable with this, then just let us know where you are at with it. I look forward to hearing it.