All good Bro, All good. You know what GAL means. I won't bother to tell ya
Originally Posted By: Denver_2010
I have started going back to the gym and am somewhat focused on that. I'm also trying to refocus on work... which isn't going well so far.
KEEP GOING TO THE GYM. Push yourself on the weights. The afterglow and endorphins give you a "High" that you can't achieve without doing illegal narcotics. You owe that to yourself. Hard to get there, but a sense of an accomplishment that's worth it. Trust me on that. It's tough, but perseverance gives you strength.
Originally Posted By: Denver_2010
Do my feelings of missing my W come out to her even though I don't say anything? I don't know. Maybe you are right. But I have been pretty good about NOT initiating contact with her, and sounding very happy every time she contacts me.
I'm convinced, but can't scientifically prove they have a built in radar. THEY KNOW. Connection, love, attraction, guilt, etc. They know.
Don't contact her, let her pursue. Not in a "you are better than her way", but in a way that you let her see YOU are okay without her. I might get flack, but women don't want an ez target. Men don't either unless it's just sex. Make sense?
No brainer, keep doing what you are doing. However, do what you say you are going to do.
Originally Posted By: Denver_2010
I am determined NOT to contact her when I am feeling this way, or feeling insecure or in need of reassurance. I may have messed up yesterday with that, but that was a little different bc I was getting ready to book a very expensive trip.
Your determination on this is a GOOD thing.
An expensive trip? I'd take a happy expensive vacation with the woman I love any day over an expensive devastating divorce. Not only could I look in the mirror and knew I tried, but in your perspective...I'd get to hug minnie mouse
Originally Posted By: Denver_2010
I am curious about what 'negative' that you elected not to 'drill' me on... I can take it Faith...
THIS is a good thing. My negative....quit being the feminine one. Be the man. The polarity right now has shifted. SHOW STRENGTH. Don't miss her, make her miss you. Not macho, but like my first post on THIS thread. Leave her wanting more.
