9, it is experiences like this that may get your W to reconsider what she is doing. I don't think that it is any one single event, but the sum total. I know that you probably had some expectations, it is hard not to. But I think that you should look at how positive this was. W did get a glimpse of the family that she is leaving behind. And it was a glimpse of the good in that family. I think that is huge. The second positive is that she got a glimpse of the 'new' you. Personally, I don't see any negatives at all. The comment about the vines? Well, yeah, she is still thinking that she is not coming back. One fun occasion isn't going to change that. But I am fairly confident that this will have her thinking.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
