I'm not on any online dating sites and just waiting to see what the warm summer days and nights bring for me.
I totally agree with Donna. NO WAY would I date someone not divorced at least a year. CTH, you have so much healing to do and will be in a much better space to attract emotionally healthy women after some time has passed. Take this time to focus on YOU and your kids. There will be plenty of time for dating a bit later. That's just my two cents. I still subscribe by the phrase, "You don't attract what you want, you attract what you are."
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10