three contacts from W today - one totally random, 2 seem to have 'purpose' to them, but not really things I needed to know about, or needed her to tell me about.. Not sure if I should respond to any, or how to respond. At this point, I don't want to walk on eggshells, but I don't want to give the wrong impression. It seems like she is operating under this illusion that getting divorced != the end of our relationship. I understand sometimes this is true, especially w/ kids (no kids here..) but I don't see why I would remain friends with someone who has mistreated me and lied to me as much as she has. That just seems like doormat behavior and I need to work on ending that kind of thing.

Meeting with L tommorow. Should be interesting. Never actually had to see an L about anything before, and I don't know what to expect. Not sure how to proceed - just move forward? Slow-walk things? Just really don't know.


M: 32
W: 29
T: 9 Years
M: 4 Years
I hit rock bottom: 2/11
PA admitted: 4/11
WAW: 5/11
D filed: 6/11
now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.