Well she came over and told me she does want a divorce. Was a really hard conversation to have honestly. I kept my confidence throughout the whole thing though and tried my best to seem okay with it. I told her I won't deny her a divorce if that is what she wants because I'll be okay in the end. She said she hopes we can be friends in the end because I've been her best friend for so long. I said maybe one day but right now I need to piece my life back together. I told her I know we both did some things wrong in our marriage so there's no point in assigning blame here. I just said I think the problem is our communication broke down and got us to this point. I said it's actually pretty sad that it got to this point. She said we didn't do anything wrong she just needs to know that she can stand on her own two feet right now and wants to be alone. I said well there really wasn't a need to be along personally I would rather invest in something worthwhile myself. I told her again it's ok because I'll be ok.
She didn't admit an affair and I didn't bother to pursing it. The very little it was mentioned her facial expressions pretty well owned up to it. So now I don't know if I should just cease all contact with her period or not. I really don't want this marriage to end but she seems to be dead set on it.
When she left she said she would text me later tonight. Who knows if she actually will or not.
