CeMar:

There is no TEST here. God didn't do this to YOU, and there is nothing in the wedding vows I remember taking that said anything about the woman being a sexual dynamo according to the husband's standards.

You are in the mess you are in because you are so unbelievably certain that you are RIGHT and everyone else is WRONG. You have convinced yourself that until your wife 'sees the light' of how important physical touch is to you, that you have no options, no choices, no hope. You get to be the victim, she gets to be the bad guy. In this scenario, you no longer have to examine your own motives, question your own beliefs, or make any effort whatsoever beyond the effort you already have because you are so insanely PISSED that you wife is not what you want her to be, how DARE she.

You're just f$cking pissed at the world, CeMar, and it's EVERYONE's fault but yours. So yes, under this scenario, you definitely have a major, major problem.