Hi Pei, thanks for replying. Like most people here Ive read and re-read a tonne of threads. Some did the family thing others couldnt. Some had success and others didnt. In my opinion its an individual thing and you'll only ever know if its going to work if you try it out.
What I do know for sure is to enable me to do this I need to be emotionally stronger. I need to detach and detach some more. Let go of any expectations but hold on to hope. I will also be setting boundaries eg, no physical intimacy if he is still with OW.
I dont know what the outcome of this will be but I am willing to give it a shot. As I said before I may get hurt but Ill pick myself up and dust myself off. Wish me luck....
W - 31 H - 33 Married - 7 years Together - 10 yrs Kids - S 3yrs old Separated - 27/03/11 OW - 10/04/11
