I'm not saying that being treated rudely is better than being treated nice. I'm just saying there are a WHOLE HOST of things that "they're suddenly acting nice towards me" can mean.
Again, very good point. I see what you are saying.
W and I have been 'nice' to each other for a while now. The offer about D just felt different to me. It caught me off guard. Unexpected.
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Agreeing to go out on a date with you. Planning future events as a family. Reading a pro-marriage book.
Definitely agree these are VERY positive signs. They just seem like more than ‘baby steps’ to me. These sound like leaps. Perhaps my perspective is just off.
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